Comments on: Why bad things are good http://www.burnsautoparts.com/blog/2006/08/14/why-bad-things-are-good/ Leslie Burns-Dell'Acqua writes on the photo business and marketing Fri, 21 Nov 2008 22:53:47 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Ivan http://www.burnsautoparts.com/blog/2006/08/14/why-bad-things-are-good/#comment-48 Ivan Sat, 19 Aug 2006 20:51:04 +0000 http://www.burnsautoparts.com/blog/2006/08/14/why-bad-things-are-good/#comment-48 Leslie, I agree fully with you. It's seems strange to say to somebody who has been fired : Great, Good stuff or congratulation ! but often we should do it. When it breaks, often people realise after a while that they got used since a long time to a bad situation they didn't realise they were in. It gives the opportunity to get a step forward, but it needs also often help from outside to do it. The badest thing I saw was people to get that used to a bad situation, that they never wanted to emerge. They did the necessary steps to get again in bad situation as to feel bad was a known territory, feeling good was connected to the unknown and anxiety. I don't say good luck to your husband as he already got luck by being fired ! Leslie, I agree fully with you. It’s seems strange to say to somebody who has been fired : Great, Good stuff or congratulation ! but often we should do it. When it breaks, often people realise after a while that they got used since a long time to a bad situation they didn’t realise they were in. It gives the opportunity to get a step forward, but it needs also often help from outside to do it. The badest thing I saw was people to get that used to a bad situation, that they never wanted to emerge. They did the necessary steps to get again in bad situation as to feel bad was a known territory, feeling good was connected to the unknown and anxiety.

I don’t say good luck to your husband as he already got luck by being fired !

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